Women from my childhood
lived in a secluded place
They carried loads of wood
on their back,
barrels full of water and
small sleepy children
up the rocky terrain
Some carried a precious gift –
a newborn in their arms
who couldn’t wait to come
into this world
They never owned a phone
wireless or telly
News traveled from mouth to mouth
in whispers
They smiled softly
but laughed only among themselves
Their children attended school
unaffected by climate conditions
They never held tea or birthday parties
by the pool on hot summer days
They went to Sunday mass
wearing the best clothes
perfumed in scent of fresh mint
to confess – to God-fearing priest –
seeking forgiveness
After the sermon, they greeted
other worshipers, then spontaneously
formed a circle
bursting –
into joyful song and dance
And on every turn they hoped
to catch a smile
on the rugged men’s faces
standing by
——
Women from my childhood
rarely ventured to the city
They felt uneasy walking
on the streets stretching forever,
where every house displayed
its own shiny number
Balconies adorned with geraniums
and self assured school girls
wearing tight tops with open décolleté
Where city ladies wore pretty frocks
white gloves, hats, silk stockings
and weightless scarves
imported from Trieste
——-
In the afternoons, after siesta –
they strolled up and down
on promenade
in elegant heels
heads held high
Their cheeks flawless
hiding behind sunglasses
like movie stars
They sat in the open cafes
sipping Turkish coffee,
taking small bites of princess puffs
Applying a new coat of rogue
and smiling discretely at
the handsome young men
passing by
——
Women of the fifties
I still remember you
(C) Dinka Bednjacic